Birmingham Community Comes Together for Vigil to Combat Domestic Violence During Awareness Month

Birmingham Community Vigil Brings Awareness to Domestic Violence

Birmingham, AL – As October marks Domestic Violence Awareness Month, the YWCA of Central Alabama hosted a ceremony at Kelly Ingram Park on Friday to honor survivors and raise awareness about the critical issues surrounding domestic violence. In a somber display of solidarity, community members gathered to share stories and shed light on a pressing concern affecting many families in the area.

This year, the Birmingham Police Department reported an alarming trend with a sharp rise in domestic homicides. As of October 3rd, the department has investigated eight homicide cases classified as domestic, surpassing the total of four cases throughout all of 2023. Monica Shields from the YWCA expressed her concern, stating, “Whatever is happening in the community is a byproduct of what’s happening in our homes, in our hearts, and in our relationships.” She further explained how unresolved issues can escalate violence in interpersonal relationships, leading to a domino effect where victims, predominantly women and children, are put in greater danger.

Among the participants at the ceremony was survivor Jarvis Taylor, who shared his personal experiences growing up in a home marked by domestic violence. “I grew up in a domestic violence household where my grandfather was very abusive,” Taylor recounted. He emphasized how transforming anger into a drive to make a positive impact in the community can change lives. “I used my anger and turned it into an opportunity to give back. As opposed to a product of my environment, I decided to let it teach me what I did not want to be like,” he shared.

The event also took an emotional turn as attendees reflected on the unfortunate loss of victims. One striking case was that of Maria Juan, for whom the suspect is believed to be the father of her child. Her mother, Zenobia Aqeel, delivered a powerful message to those trapped in toxic relationships: “If someone tells you they’re gonna kill you, beware. Don’t just say, ‘oh, he’s just saying something.’ Really, really be careful. Be watchful and mindful of who you associate with.”

As the need for domestic violence services grows, Shields noted that the YWCA is busy addressing the constant influx of victims. “Over 90% of our victims find themselves in situations where they may flee their homes out of danger of losing their lives.” She stressed the importance of recognizing warning signs of domestic violence, which often can be subtle. “It can start with controlling behaviors or quick and intense involvement,” she advised, underscoring that relationships founded on power and control should never be overlooked.

For those in need, the YWCA offers a 24-hour crisis hotline where individuals can seek assistance any time of day. By dialing (205) 322-4878 (HURT), callers can connect with a crisis intervention specialist who is prepared to help. “It is always accessible, available 24/7, 365 days a year,” stated Shields.

In addition to the crisis hotline, the YWCA operates a confidential emergency shelter for women and children escaping domestic violence. This October, the organization is holding Domestic Violence 101 Training sessions to educate the public about the signs of abuse and available resources. The month will conclude with a vigil for victims lost due to domestic violence on October 17th at City Walk, a time for the community to come together in remembrance and support.

The YWCA reminds everyone that raising awareness and supporting survivors can make a significant difference in the fight against domestic violence. By coming together as a community, healing can begin for those affected by this serious issue.